Canaan Sidney Robinson: The Arrival

afcyrus — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 04:33:46 +0000

SORRY THAT THIS HAS TAKEN ALMOST 7 WEEKS! Apparently having a baby, buying a new house, moving to a new city, and starting a new job are pretty time consuming. I’ll get to all that later. I’ll start at the beginning. As a warning, this is a bit long-winded.
On Saturday, 21 March we had our final baby shower for Canaan at our church in Benton. It was wonderful. Over 40 people attended, and we got some amazing gifts for our princess (our car was LOADED down).
As most of you may know by now, Tasha has had problems with gestational diabetes and pregnancy-induced hypertension (high blood-pressure) since she got pregnant. She was hospitalized twice, she was constantly feeling very weak, and she was eventually put on strict bed rest requiring her to withdraw from classes this quarter.
We knew she had some problems, but when we went to her Dr. appointment on 23 February we did not expect to hear him tell us that he would need to induce labor the next day. It was shocking. Tasha was pretty upset at first because she wanted her Mom to be able to come to the hospital, and she wouldn’t be able to on such short notice.
Eventually though, the pending excitement and the imminent arrival of our princess took over. We had Canaan-fever!
That night we made sure we had everything we would need packed and ready to go. The next morning we went to Target and picked up some last minute things that we would need for her arrival (including an awesome stroller/car seat/car seat base travel system).
We went to the hospital at 4pm on 23 February, and they began the process of preparing Tasha for labor induction.
The labor was anything but ideal. Tasha’s epidural fell out, causing her intense pain. They put it back in, but a little while later, while dilated to a 7 Tasha started feeling excruciating pain… They called the anesthesiologist back in, but he argued with Tasha for 30 minutes, telling her she wasn’t in pain… He was telling her it was just pressure, not pain. 30 minutes into her screaming to the guy that she wasn’t lying…her sister, Stormi, pointed out that the epidural drip was EMPTY. Hrm… The epidural fell out on other time, and had to be replaced again.
Canaan decided to come out brow presentation, meaning she shoved her head back and tried to push out forehead first. This isn’t ideal, and so…Tasha got stuck dilated at an 8. After almost 24 hours into the ordeal, they decided to do an emergency C-section.
During the C-Section, I was behind a curtain, but I could see around the edge of it a bit. I could hear them drilling or cutting what sounded like bone, and it smelled like the smell of the tooth dust when a cavity is getting drilled. Tasha starts yelling that she can feel them cutting, and they tell her she can’t feel it. She tells them once again, as they used a scalpel that she can feel them cutting her right then, and so they decide to put her to sleep for the operation. I hear the doctor ask for the vacuum. I can hear the light suction… the doctor tells them to turn the suction up. The nurses tell him it is up. He starts yelling at them that it’s not working right, he can’t get suction on the baby. The idea was to make a small incision, attach the vacuum to Caney’s head, and pull her out. The vacuum malfunction complicated matters worse… He gave up the vacuum and cut her open even wider so he could reach in and grab the baby.
The baby comes out, the someone yells “10:22pm”! They try aspirating her, she isn’t crying, she isn’t screaming…she isn’t breathing. They run out of the room with her. I scream, “WHERE DO I GO?!” The doctor said to stay, the anesthesiologist told me to follow the baby. I ran after my baby. They had her in a side room with a nurse blocking the door. She wouldn’t let me in… The nurses were slapping her belly, flipping her, slapping her tummy…working frantically. No crying. I am screaming, begging the nurse to tell me what’s wrong with my baby, asking if she’s ok. She won’t tell me anything except warn me that she’d kick me out if I didn’t calm down…
Our family and friends are all gathered outside the doors, hoping to catch a glimpse, they send someone running after a respiratory specialist… As the doors open for the nurse to find the specialist, our family and friends see me crying and I just scream “PRAY! PRAY!” …and the doors swing closed.
Finally, a gasp, a whimper, and then…the most beautiful sound I’ve ever heard, a cry.
Despite being without breathing for what seemed like an eternity, her oxygen level was great…she was jaundiced, but she was otherwise healthy and doing great. She almost didn’t make it…
All that I could think was…I cannot EVER go through this again…EVER… Despite Tasha and I wanting to have several kids, all that I could think was that this experience was too horrifying, too depressing, too emotional to experience again.
And then that beautiful little girl…her screaming face…so beautiful…she had a bruise on her forehead and a bloody bruise on her nose from pushing against Tasha’s cervix with her brow/nose for over 24 hours, but she was perfect.

Her first scream. Music to my ears.

So, you might think that the nightmarish experience was over. Well, perhaps the worst of it was, but there was plenty more to come.

The next day, Tasha was supposed to be on an all liquid diet, and we had been told this. So we were surprised when a woman in scrubs comes in with a lunch full of solids the next day. I tell her “we were told she’s on a liquid diet, are you sure she can eat solids?!” She said “Oh, yeah, she can have solids, this is what they ordered for her.” So Tasha dug in… the nurse comes in and says “Why are you eating solids?! You’re on a liquid diet!” Ah…terrific. So later that day the same nurse comes in to hook up Tasha’s new saline drip. Tasha starts feeling extreme stomache cramps. She complains to the nurse who is at a loss as to why… A different nurse comes in, and notices Tasha is hooked up to Pitocin, the medicine they used to induce labor. The bag was still on the pole, and the other nurse hooked up the wrong medicine bag. So she was having contractions/spasms because the woman gave her the wrong medicine! So, finally, the next day, they tell Tasha she can take her first shower…the shower is broke. They had to call in maintenance to fix it. The room, by the way, was TINY. It’s definitely not the recovery room they showed us when we toured the birthing center. The experience was all so terrifying. Finally, we got released to go home 5 days after we got there. Nightmare over?! Wrong…

Tasha went for her 2 week follow-up appointment with her doctor. He asked if she was having any problems. She told him her sutures were starting to hurt a LOT and that she thought they might be getting infected. He asks to take a look. He’s SHOCKED. His jaw drops, and he asks “WHY ARE YOUR STAPLES STILL IN?!” He continues, “Who was your nurse that discharged you?! They had specific orders not to release you without removing your staples first! That’s why you’re in so much discomfort! They were in for 2 weeks longer than they should have been…” So he removed them, but the scarring is considerably worse because of the incompetence of the hospital staff.

So, my beautiful princess made her grand arrival with plenty of drama, but everyone insisted (and still does) that she’s the prettiest baby ever. I couldn’t agree more. Here are the pictures from when she was born (it’s a lot!)…

Tasha with her Aunt Crystal (TeeTaw) before Caney's arrival

Tasha with her Aunt Crystal, Sister Stormi (Aunt Sissy), and her Nana

Tasha with my Momma (Gran Gran) and my Nanna

with Tyler and Copelander

The door that swung open when I screamed for my friends and family to pray...

Tyler... before they knew something was wrong...

Chris... still before they knew something was wrong.

My Dad (Paw Paw) and Ms. Cathy and Chris after Caney came out to the nursery happy and healthy

Thank God...

It's a scary world, huh, baby girl?

First picture outside the scary doors

In the nursery

Notice the blood bruise on her nose...

My perfect little girl...

She was so alert, just exploring everything and everyone

Still in the nursery...

A light-hearted moment after Caney was safely in nursery...

My princesses...

They both fought so hard. I'm so proud of them...

Me with my princess for the first time.

This is heaven...

I was soooo happy...

and a bit excited...?

Perfect.

My girls...

Nom nom nom!

So happy...

A mommy's love...

Gran Gran with Caney

Tasha's Grandpa with his first great grandchild

Still with Grandpa.

and with her Great-Grandma

Great Grandparents

Nanna, a great-grandmother for the FIFTH time!

Nanna with my Girls

Gran Gran helping

MUAH!

Yummy!

Uncle David is a huge fan!

Uncle David and Aunt Brianne, expecting a little girl named Leah in May (Caney's cousin)!

Sleeping Beauty!

Still sleeping

So perfect. So beautiful.

That’s all for this post, but I promise many many more to come! We love you all…

-Cy

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Canaan Sidney Robinson: The Arrival