R a i s i n g C a n e y . c o m

Isn’t my wife beautiful?

Caney and Tasha in Class... The guy in the background is taking a nap!

So the first time Tasha got a craving was on our way home from Maryland this summer.  We were on a rather long drive, obviously, and it was about time for us to stop and stretch our legs.  Tasha told me she was hungry, which was fine, but I was shocked when she told me what she wanted to eat…  biscuits and coleslaw.  Initially, I thought this was quite an odd combination, but then it came together.  Trying to figure out where to go for such a request, Tasha was quick to suggest KFC or Popeye’s, so we went to Popeye’s, which serves both coleslaw AND biscuits.  So, what I initially thought an odd request turned out to be normal side orders at most chicken joints.

That having been said, I now understand a bit better how my wife’s cravings (don’t?) work.   Basically, my wife hasn’t had any really extraordinary requests or cravings.  She used to drink a lot of Coke (the general term for carbonated beverages in the South) and caffeinated drinks.  Since she got pregnant she hardly EVER drinks ANY caffeine.  That’s mostly for Caney’s health, but in general, Tasha’s desire for Cokes has mostly gone away.  Now, she drinks almost exclusively…H2O.  Weird, huh?  She craves water…

As for food items, she’s always liked pickles, but I think I’ve actually seen a slight increase in her liking of pickles (but it’s hard to say).  Also, she’s taken to eating plenty of fruits and veggies.  You read right, fruits and vegetables.

I’m starting to think there may have been a rational reason for my wife to have lost weight initially in the pregnancy.  She craves healthy food.  Weirdo!  Actually, there’ve been a couple instances where she’ll get these crazy cravings for candy, and she’ll go buy a MASSIVE bag of candy from Wal-Mart only to discover that she doesn’t really want candy very badly…and the massive bag sits on our coffee table until my friends come over and scavenge like vultures.  Thank God for friends taking the candy, lest I eat it all!

So, you must be wondering what the “Power Tools” part of the title is referring to.  Well, as some of you might already know, my Momma gave us a small unfinished wooden round dining table (that’s a lot of adjectives!).  It looks exactly like this, except this is a dollhouse table:

Like this, only...much bigger.

It’s very nice, but it’s unfinished.  Also, we’ve repeatedly put cups on the table that had created a total of 17 noticable water stain rings.  Tasha let me get a power sander.  I got a Black and Decker Mouse Power Sander that lights up light green if you’re not pressing hard enough, dark green if you’re just right, and red if you’re too hard.  It has several really cool little attachments that are for sanding odd-shaped surfaces, and it has a carrying bag.

This is the sander I got. It's my first power tool! Haha...

This was my first “home improvement” project.  I sanded the table, stained it, and noticed that the water stains were…MORE noticeable.  Sooooo, I re-sanded… much better this time, and I restained it several times.  It took several days of hard work (and trusting that no one would steal it from in front of my apartment where I had it drying).  I put the final satin finish clear coat on it, and it looks wonderful!  I’m very proud of it.  Here are a couple of pics of it now:

Here's Our Table!

Heres another view of our table. Notice the bridal picture frame in the back? Thats new too!

There’s home improvement project 1!  I know, I know, it’s not perfect, but it’s my first project.  I like it .  Wait, there’s more though!  Power Tools is PLURAL.  So there’s MORE!  So, we’ve been talking about/looking for some shelves to put up to give us more horizontal storage space (we have a lot of pictures and such that we like to display).  Also, I’ve been wanting somewhere to hang our backbacks that’s easy to access, looks nice, and helps us clean the clutter a bit.  Soooo, everyone knows that you need a good drill to put up shelves properly and such properly!  Soooo, Tasha let me buy a Black and Decker Drill and some bits for it too!

This is the drill that I got.

When I installed the shelves and the hooks I did it the right way too (using drywall anchors for support)!

Here are some pics of the shelf and the hooks:

This is our shelf! Its hard to see, but the pictures frames (with engagement pics) are new too. Also, notice the manger up front. This is the beginning (a bit early!) of our Christmas decor.

These are the hooks in the bedroom above the shoe rack.

Just to show you some more of our home, here are a couple extra pictures:

This is our bed with a crochet picture that Darla McDonald made us (it's awesome) as a wedding gift.

The crosses are a wedding gift from the awesome Michelle Harper. The black shelf thing is our wedding display. We have a huge poster sized print of one of our wedding pictures being developed to go above it. The square lamp is a wedding gift from my Dads friend, Mr. Dennis Dean.

Tasha (playing Fable 2 on the Xbox 360) and Rex studying (aka watching Tasha playing Fable 2). The 3 pictures frames to the left and the 2 top ones to the right are also new.

So, our cat has a 6 level (including the roof) play house. There are toys scattered throughout it, and the top is basically her throne. She doesn't usually climb through the maze of the inside to get up the levels. She prefers to just leap and use her claws to climb to the top. She's an awesome little ninja.

Sooooo, welcome to our home (and what will be Caney’s first home?), and thanks for enduring my excitement about power tools/home improvement…and cravings!  Let us know what you think!

-Cy

So, Tasha and I watched Juno last year (the title of the post is a line from one of the soundtrack songs).  We both loved the movie, and we tried to get my Dad to watch it.  He lost interest almost immediately, but Tasha and I…still love it.  Many people don’t like it or haven’t seen it, and to that I say “GO WATCH IT!”  That having been said, here’s the poster for the film:

The Juno Poster

Now, here are the costumes Tasha and I wore to the Chi Alpha ROCKtober party:

Our Juno MacGuff and Paulie Bleeker Costumes

Now, again, not everyone had seen the movie, but everyone who recognized our costumes LOVED them.  We had tons of pictures taken of us.  It was a blast.

We definitely wanted to incorporate Tasha’s baby bump into our costume, so we originally considered going as an oven with a bun in it and a chef.  There’s a costume set you can buy for it, but we could only find the chef (aka Bun Maker) half.  We could have made the oven out of a box, but we didn’t want to spend that effort.  Then we remembered the movie, Juno, and our minds were made.

Completely unrelated to our costumes, we went to Heather Castille’s surprise 22nd b-day party a few days before the ROCKtober party.  Heather is a friend from Chi Alpha, and we bought her the Apples to Apples for her birthday.

Apples to Apples Card Game

Here are a couple of pics of us at the party:

Tasha, Cyrus, and Caney at Heather Castille's surprise birthday party

Tasha and Caney at Heather's party

There you have it ladies and gentlemen.  I am still trying to track down the poem about Caney mooning us in her ultrasound, but I can’t find it at the moment.  We have an appointment with Dr. Flores tomorrow just for a check up.  I’ll be sure to report back to you all soon.  Take care, and God bless you all.

-Cy

Sooooo, Tasha and I got married on 07 June 2008.  We had talked throughout our engagement about our desire to have a child as we got married and how we both felt called to parenthood.  We felt this was God’s will.  2 weeks before our wedding we decided and agreed that we wanted to wait until we were “established” and graduated from college.  We had changed our minds, but…

God didn’t change his mind.

After our honeymoon we were living in Hyattsville, MD right off of the University of Maryland campus at this house:

Claymore House

So, the signs began to point to a Baby Robinson not long after we got to Maryland.  In order to illustrate the significance of our miracle in the making, I must be a bit graphic for a moment.  On our honeymoon, we “took the proper precautions” for NOT having a baby.  So three pregnancy tests later, we discovered that we would be following God’s plan, not ours, and thank God for that!

Tasha’s first response was to cry.  She was afraid of what her parents might think.  She was also afraid of… having a baby living inside of her.  I suppose those can both be pretty scary things.  I’ll admit, I was also terrified when I first found out, BUT… I was also excited.  Er, I still am terrified, actually.  I know a baby has input and output…like a computer.  I’m told it’s not as simple as that though .  I immediately started cheering and jumping and screaming and hugging/kissing my wife, who probably thought that I was crazy.

We went to Johns Hopkins University Medical Center, and they gave us our first glimpse of Baby Robinson:

Caney at 6 weeks along

Yeeeep, she’d be the little peanut in the middle there.  Well, we finished off the summer in Maryland (I was there for an internship), and we came back to good old Louisiana Tech University in Ruston, La.

Tasha and I both wanted our first child to be a boy.  Now, this isn’t because we won’t (or don’t) love the idea of having a little girl. For Tasha, she thinks having a little boy will be so much easier.  Boys are rough and tough and resilient, right?!  I guess I agree with her, but my motivations were a bit different.  I’m afraid that if I have a little girl first I’m going to be unfairly strict on her.  I was hoping to have a big bro around to beat up any little boys who look my daughter’s direction in the future.  I joked around with folks that if I had a girl first, I’d just ground her until she’s 30.  The first time we went to find out her sex,  Baby Robinson was turned the wrong way and she was mooning us.  I wrote a poem about that, but I’ll upload that in a later post.  We went back a few days later to try to find out the sex again.  Well, here’s how that turned out:

It's a Girl! 17 weeks along (I think?)...

Apparently the two horizontal white lines to the right mean “little girl.”  We want to use Biblical names, so we decided that if it were a boy we’d name him Elijah.  However, we’re having a little girl, so her name shall be Canaan (technically this is a guy’s name in the Bible, but we like it for our little girl)!  Now we’ve come full circle, and reached the namesake of this website.  Canaan’s nickname is Caney, and I like Raising Cane’s so… welcome to RaisingCaney.com!

Here are a few more pictures of Caney at around 17 weeks along:

If you are imaginative, you can see her face to the top of this picture. She is facing to the right, you can make out her jaw bone and her eyes. You can also see her heart.

Her head is at the top (a bit of it is cut off) and her spine is to the left.

This next one is probably my favorite.  Her little legs were just a kicking during the ultrasound.  It was awesome to see her moving around.

You can see the bottom of one foot, and the toes pointed down of the other. Amazing...

Here’s my baby Momma at about 18 weeks:

Tasha Marie . She's beautiful, and so is that baby bump!

So, we were scared because for the first 18 weeks, Tasha actually LOST weight (despite her belly growing).  She lost, I think 8 pounds total, but the doctors told us not to worry because she’d gain it back.  She has started gaining the weight back now, and her baby bump continues to grow.  It’s really late, and I’ve got work bright and early, so I am going to end this post for tonight.  Thanks for visiting, and welcome to RaisingCaney.com!  Feel free to leave a comment.